Why Date Island Ladies - Find Love in the Philippines

Love is like the air we breathe; it can’t be seen, but it is heard, felt, and needed. On a religious note, the world was made out of the creator's love and you came to existence because of your parents' love. Love is just around the corner. It is meant to happen to each one of us under no specific circumstance.

Most single men dream about meeting the right woman, but not all of them are ready to do what it takes to get her. A man who is ready to do whatever it takes to meet the woman he sees himself spending the rest of his life with, is not afraid to at least travel to another continent to find her. Hundreds of dateable Philippine women have been waiting for you.

Before you fly to the Philippines, know more about these beautiful island ladies and the dating practices in their home country that are derived from their culture and traditions. This includes the many different aspects that you should put into consideration.

Dating Etiquette in the Philippines

Playing hard to get -- Filipina style.

Traditional single Filipino girls are shy and secretive about their real feelings for a suitor and deny it even though they are really in love with the man. Persistence is the key to her heart!

In the Philippines, tuksuhan or teasing is typically done by a circle of friends, coworkers, or family members when a man and woman has a potentially mutual admiration or affection for each other. It may end up either in romance or avoidance from an awkward situation.

The woman's response to teasing can give a potential suitor a clue on how she feels about having him as her partner. If the woman encourages the teasing, either by being nice or not reacting negatively, it is a go signal for the man to pursue her earnestly.

The present-day dating scene in the Philippines blends the traditional practices and external influences of modern technology and globalization. Your western dating etiquette may work mostly for a Filipina date, however, it should be applied carefully.

Here are five points you can draw inspiration from, before you set foot in the Philippines for a date of a lifetime.

1. Man takes the leading role.

   According to the Philippines’ dating culture, the man makes the first move. It’s taboo for a girl to initiate a date with the man. Although at present, a Filipino woman can indirectly encourage the man to court her or even initiate the relationship. However, like a common culture to all, the man asks the woman out for a date and prepares everything -- considering the lady’s preferences.

   Philippine women love to submit themselves to their partners. They would prefer dating a man who has authority and strong will.

2. Parents’ consent matters.

   Filipinas are very respectful to their parents. Asking their parents' consent to go out on a date is a cultural and traditional norm. It is advisable for the man to pick up the girl from her house and bring her back at the end of the date. Winning a Filipina’s heart means building a rapport with her family.

3. It is a slow and sure process.

   You are about to date a reserved and conservative woman. Filipino couples usually take dating slowly. It gives them adequate opportunity to know each other well and test their sincerity and commitment. Dating takes ideally several months or even a year or so in the Philippines, depending on the woman.

   On your first date, it’s important to be on the same note as her. Having a slow but steady pace is important, as dating a Philippine woman requires patience.

4. The first date leaves traces.

   First impressions may not always last, but it always counts. Make the best out of your first date with a Filipino girl. This is when you start to get your intention across and feel out her attitude towards you. The first date can be the defining moment whether you stop or pursue each other. A first date sets the standard and mood for your follow-up dates with her.

5. Show her your true self.

   The etiquette that you should never forget to adhere to is to be yourself. Present yourself as you are to her, with no pretension and exaggeration. Regardless of stereotypes and standards, an ideal man differs from woman to woman. Act naturally on the date and she’ll be more likely to consider you a potential partner -- it’s the best feeling in the world to be loved for who you truly are.

Dating Deal Breakers for Island Ladies

Never overdo dating etiquette. Keeping an eye on the possible factors that may turn off your Filipina date is as equally important as trying to please her. Here are some make-or-break moments that you have keep track of to keep your date flowing smoothly:

• Being overly aggressive makes you appear insincere

  Do not allow your excitement to ruin the romantic moment. When you find yourself hurrying and being too pushy, you have to slow down. You are not dating a woman with a similar culture. You deal with her in a manner that is appropriate in their culture and tradition. Moreover, avoid discussing topics that are too sensual or intimate. Show sincerity through respect.

• Being sincere, but not too serious

  There are many ways you can show sincerity to a woman. Being a good listener and sensibly responding to her are the least things you can do on your date. However, do not be too serious. You can show a sincere attitude while making her comfortable and enjoying the moment. Use your sense of humor to break the ice.

• Too proud to impress

  The tendency when trying to impress a date is unknowingly sounding too proud or arrogant. You can showcase your achievements to your Filipino date, however, you have to make sure that humility is still present. Philippine women prefer men who are humble and have humility, as they themselves are modest individuals.

• Be sentimental, not materialistic

  You may find them emotional because of their sentimental nature. They are strongly influenced by their emotional feelings, especially about happy memories of past events or relationships with other people. This makes it easy to please your Filipina date; you don’t have to regularly give her a bouquet of flowers or chocolates, since your time and presence, and the way you make her feel while being with you is priceless for her.

Five Tips for Dating Single Island Ladies

Pleasing a Filipina girl on a date is not difficult. You have to simply remember the dating etiquette that these ladies uphold and what their deal breakers are. Take these tips from one of the best Philippine matchmaking agencies to succeed on your date.

What a Filipino girl would love to see on a date are the following:

1. Chivalry

   This is very rare to find these days. However, Philippine women continue to believe in its existence. Possessing ideal traits and behaviors like politeness, honesty and kindness will help you advance to the next date.

2. Sincerity

   Filipino women seeking men are up for a serious relationship. They can commit to a long-term relationship, so sincerity is very important to keep her. Showing her your sincerity on the first date will leave a great impression on her and instills a sense of trust early on in your relationship.

3. Sense of Humor

   One of the happiest people on earth is the Filipinos; they love to smile and laugh amidst adversities. Flaunting a good sense of humor to her on your date would certainly tickle her heart. If you are not good at cracking jokes, you can learn it along the way.

4. Food

   Filipinos love food -- both in its preparation and consuming it. When she invites you to meet her family, you will be welcomed with various kinds of Filipino food served on the table. There is something about food which draws people closer to each other. Having this in mind, don’t forget to share a meal on your date!

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