Marriage Material: Dating Asian Women in the Philippines

Men all over the world travel to the Philippines in pursuit of the warm tropical weather, white sand beaches, and an enthralling romantic adventure. While many come over just to have a good time, there are those whose primary focus is to find someone to marry.

This doesn’t come as a surprise as Asian women possess many qualities men look for in a future spouse. Feminine, caring, family-oriented - just the kind of woman men look to start a family with.

There is no shortage of marriageable women in the Philippines as evidenced by healthy population numbers and the number of international marriages.

This does not discount the fact that as a foreign man you need to do your due diligence before entering the Philippine dating scene. The reality is, just like the rest of the world, some women don’t have the best intentions at heart.

If you’re just there for the casual dates, a temporary fling, or if you just have really low expectations, you’ll most probably end up having a good time anyway.

Finding someone to date seriously and possibly marry requires higher standards of discernment. Any self-respecting man deserves the best for himself, and the same goes for the lady.

Compatibility is ultimately the biggest factor when you want to identify potential partners, but there are just some traits in a woman that will make your marriage as solid as can be.

Remember, marriage is for the long haul, and you’ll need a partner who can wade through the muddy waters of life with you.

Here are a few things to look out for when dating Filipinas in your search for a future wife:

1. The Money Factor

   Okay, let’s get this out of the way. While some people say that love is all that matters and money can wait, the financial aspect of a marriage is a crucial thing to address.

   Firstly, would she marry you because of who you are and not because of your money?

   There are gold-diggers, and then there are women simply looking for a better life for themselves and their family. In the Philippines, there are lots of them. If this isn’t an issue for you, then that’s fine. You might have even accepted that it comes with the territory.

   However, if you find a girl who can stay committed to you despite the money, because she believes in you, then you better hold on to her.

   This brings us to point number two:

2. She is smart with money.

   Despite what the stereotypes will have you believe, there are many financially prudent women in the Philippines. The country, despite rampant poverty, is going through rapid economic rises. Filipinos are as enterprising as ever! In fact, there are more rich and high-earning Asian women than there ever have been in history.

   Find a woman who believes in saving and is practical with money. Financial problems are the second leading cause of divorce in the United States. It will be a breath of fresh air to know you have a money-smart woman by your side.

3. She can take care of herself.

   This isn’t a reference to the strong, independent trope of the West. Asian women are known to be great carers for their husbands and families. That a Filipina can take care of herself is almost a given, but for emphasis, it’s what you should look for in a potential wife.

   Look for a woman who is responsible and holds herself accountable. This is the kind of woman you want raising your children.

   Look for a lady who puts an emphasis on cleanliness, both personal and in the home. Remember, this is someone you might end up with forever, so finding one with good habits is always a good idea.

4. She is emotionally strong.

   An unfortunate stereotype of women is that they get too emotional. In a way, getting emotional doesn’t necessarily equate to being emotionally fragile. Many men don’t show emotion yet are on the verge of breaking down.

   One of the most amazing traits of women is their tolerance for pain and adversity. Their resilience is beyond admirable. The trouble with finding emotionally strong and resilient people is that you won’t find that out until you experience adversity together. But if you do manage to find this remarkable person, you may want to consider putting a ring on her finger.

The question at this point is how to meet Asian women who fit this profile? This is where you need to keep an open mind. Potential partners come from all backgrounds and upbringings. Some are born into wealthy families while some absolute gems come from less fortunate situations.

The key is to identify what you are looking for in a wife. Filipinas in general are unique in their own right, despite being characteristically Asian.

Filipino Community Assistance

Realistically, the majority of people hanging around in late night clubs might not be marriage material. The great thing about the Philippines is that there are just so many things to do and so many places to go.

The Philippines is densely populated, meaning you can go on tours, or to beaches and coffee shops just about anywhere in the country, and you’re likely to meet a few great people.

Another great thing about the Philippines is how closely knit people are with friends or family. If you have a Filipino host or are visiting a friend, you’ll most likely be invited to hang out with other friends and family for just about any occasion under the sun. Filipinos will find any excuse to get together, be it the feast day of the local patron saint, a birthday, an anniversary, or someone getting a raise.

In reality, many foreigners end up meeting the love of their lives through the propensity of Filipinos to gather and spend time in groups. Your Filipino friend will be an invaluable ally in your search for the perfect girl!

Dating for Marriage

Men looking for girls who can be described as “wife-material” will be pleased to know that there are many of them in the Philippines. Unfortunately, many men can’t seem to see beyond exteriors and end up with women who are all sorts of wrong for them.

There are Asian women all over who would make any man the happiest husband on earth. You just need to find one and sweep her off her feet.