Finding a potential partner can be made easier when you know what you’re doing.
Dating Filipinas is something that men all over the world want to do and to that end, many of them sign up for mobile dating apps in order to land themselves a lady from the Philippines as their wife.
There are a fair number of reasons as to why western men want to date Filipina women. There’s a certain stereotype with Filipina women, and with Asian women in general, that they are docile and more willing to let their husbands take the lead in relationships.
Some men want that type of relationship because it makes them feel a little more powerful. Some men want to feel like they are taking charge and that they are exerting some kind of control over their lives.
Sometimes, these men who want a more docile partner cannot be with western women who want an equal say in the direction the relationship is heading in. Sometimes, these men sign up for free dating apps and they find women whose values do not line up with their own.
There are people out there who want a relationship that they see as more traditional but modern mores and norms have made such relationships less viable; so finding love can be difficult for men who live in countries where women are a little more liberated. Even the best dating apps for relationships can’t seem to help them.
So many of the men who want a relationship that’s a little more old-school have a hard time when it comes to trying to find a potential partner.
Of course, there is one thing that many of these men forget about when it comes to dating women from such countries and that’s that these women have likes and dislikes of their own and have their own preferences when it comes to a partner.
So men who want to go about dating Filipinas would do well to actually date them if they want to be in satisfying relationships. To help you fare better with Filipino women, it wouldn’t hurt to do the following:
Bring Some Flowers or Something
A lot of guys who want to date women often show up with some flowers or chocolates or something and dating women in the Philippines should not be any different. For starters, Filipinos can be pretty sentimental in general, which is why most of the movies that the local industry cranks out are romances of some variety.
Also, Filipinos tend to have massive sweet tooths, with even savory foods like burgers and pasta being sweeter than whoever invented those dishes likely intended. So showing up with a bouquet of flowers and a box of chocolates can be a pretty big step in the right direction.
Get Social
Filipinos love the internet and chances are that any Filipina woman that you date is also going to love the internet. This means that you may have to get used to being on social media, because Filipinos love to cultivate their online personas with pictures and status updates.
If you prefer to be a bit more private on the internet, you may have to surrender some of that privacy because Filipinos love to share (sometimes overshare) over the internet.
Also, because of how much they use the internet, it won’t be unusual for a Filipina to spend a lot of time on their phone. So you may have to compete with a screen for her attention if you happen to be on a date with a Filipina.
Learn Some Phrases
Filipinos can speak English. In fact, English is pretty widely spoken throughout the country as a consequence of having once been an American territory. But communication is generally regarded as a two-way street.
So you should probably pick up a few phrases in the Filipino language as well. This is where research comes in handy. The Philippines had something in the neighborhood of eighty dialects and some people take pride in their mother tongue.
So when you are looking for phrases to use on your date, make sure you pick words and phrases from the right dialect so as to avoid offending someone because a person’s native tongue can be a serious bit of business to some people.
Dating apps can help you land a date but if you want to avoid offending her, that’s almost all on you.
Planning Ahead
Something that a lot of people do when it comes to dating is to plan ahead. They figure out what restaurant they are going to be in, what movie they are going to watch, and what paths they are going to take in a walk. They know the time that they are supposed to show up.
Then there are the people who have a vague idea of how the date is going to go and then just show up and hope for the best.
The offline dating is that because it’s generally face to face, some planning is going to have to take place. Planning a date can be a pretty good thing, but be aware that too much planning can be constricting.
Having an outline is all well and good, but there should also be some room for things to happen organically.
Have Fun
A relationship is ideally going to be something that makes the people in it happy. Having a good time is a pretty important part in being happy. So if you are in a relationship, it is important for you and your partner to have fun, because fun is a pretty important part of your connection.
Play for Keeps
Dating around is not something that happens a lot in the Philippines. The society is pretty conservative in terms of romance and relationships, so a Filipina is not likely to date simply for the sake of dating, but is doing so they can find someone with whom to settle down.
Dating Filipinas can be a pretty great thing for a lot of people. But not everyone who wants to do it is aware of just how it needs to get done. But doing it right can be pretty rewarding.
Ronna Lou Live
